You’ve always wanted to try but have shied away. You see the pictures of your friends and family holding race bibs and posting about their latest training run. Why does it seem so hard to just start running? Trust me, I’ve had this conversation in my head many times. Do I want it? Do I want to be a runner?
I wanted it. I ran in high school for fun but in the 15 years since – my marriage, work, and family took precedence. About five years ago I decided it was time. I signed up for my first 5K. The race was six weeks away. I researched training programs on-line, running routes, shoe recommendations, and local running clubs. I quickly learned running can be an individual sport and a great group sport. I ran on my own and with a running club.
I eased into running knowing I wanted it to be something I would stick with after the infatuation faded. When one route became easy I upped the ante. That first 5K led to another, then another, and I found myself craving the time I carved out for running. I ran not just to prepare for a race but because I wanted to run.
Not every run is a good run. There have been plenty of times I missed my goal or just completed a training run. But each time I make my body win over my mind and finish, my workout it feels like a victory.
I’ve left running a few times in the recent years, but always come back. There are months I run 100 miles or more, and months I don’t break the 20 mile mark. I used to focus on constantly increasing my speed, and now I’ve settled into running my pace and finding my happy. Truth be told, the first five minutes of most runs I question my sanity, but by the end of mile 2, I’m into a groove and peace settles over me.
Melissa Burkart, a local teacher who recently competed in the Olympic Marathon trials shared the following with me. “I run to breathe. Every day I run for a different reason but when I finish every run I feel the same thing… and that feeling is simply breathing. It never will be a sacrifice to care about yourself, to do something powerful for yourself, to rescue yourself. Running is not a sacrifice it is a gift. It’s a sacrifice to not run when you have the ability to do it.”
Since that first 5K I’ve racked up many miles in 5Ks , numerous 10K and 10 milers, seven half marathons, and one marathon. My medals hang in the bathroom as a daily reminder of what I have and CAN accomplish. All because one day five years ago I decided to sign up for a 5K.
Just do it. Get out there. Believe in yourself and put your feet to the pavement.
*disclaimer : Consult your healthcare profession before beginning any exercise program.
That’s awesome, Joy! Great post. I question my sanity all the time until I get into my rhythm, then all bets are off. And 19 Half Marathons and 2 Full Marathons later, I’m out of my mind.
My all time favorite half was with you!!!!! I can’t wait for the next one!!
Fantastic post! I just have one question for you, Have you experienced a bad race? And how did you cope up with it?
I started running using the couch to 5k app. I can safely say that I had my moments when I was ready to quit. But you’re right. Just START! I can now run 5ks almost without breaking a sweat. I look back at my struggle to get to that point and I’m so glad I just made the decision to do SOMETHING.
I have to agree, after a few good runs running becomes part of your system. It’s like addiction but the good kind ;). As always, hardest part about running is the beginning but once you’re hooked life becomes better. Cheers!
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Wonderful post joy. I was recently chatting to my wife about running as she’s wanting to start to become more active (and it’s ideal for us spending more time together). One of the things she really struggles with was thinking that every run was going to be enjoyable – she was shocked to learn that it took me over 300 miles before I even started to enjoy my runs! Great to see someone else who’s gone through the stages of learning to love running and has come out the other side!
I like your article!